我和先生都是独生子女,一开始认识时,只觉得有某种特质相互吸引,似乎在对方身上看到了自己的某些影子,虽然说不清楚那是什么。在我童年的时候,独生子女不普遍,所以那少数的独生子女就成了标本,他们的表现构成了一般人对独生子女的印象。稍长,从许多心理学、发展学、教养学的书中,我读到独生子女的霸道和自私。虽然我自己一直不认为我 My husband and I are both one-child children. When we first met each other, we only felt that there was something attracting one another. It seemed that we saw some of our own shadow on each other, though it was not clear what it was. When I was a child, only children were not common, so only a handful of only children became specimens, and their performance constituted the common impression of the only child. Slightly longer, I read the hegemony and selfishness of the only child from many psychology, developmental and pedagogy books. Although I myself did not think me