会云大姐;您好!来信收到!字里行间看得出,您现在比较焦虑。我理解您的心情,然而如果从另一个角度看,您应该知足。而且时代不同了,那种子承父业的旧习俗也该被职业经理人制度所取代了吧。您儿子智商高,您就安排他去做需要智商的事儿好了。至于儿子的成长与婚姻问题,我觉得这个孩子好像在某种程度上有过创伤,而且一直没有得到有效的矫治,所以方便的时候,建议他去看看心理医生,系统完整地调治一段时间。到那时,您儿子也可能就会谈恋爱了,其他问题也可能会迎刃而解了。 Sister Yun; hello! Received from the letter! You can see the lines between, you are now more anxious. I understand your mood, but if from another perspective, you should be content. And the times are different, the old custom of bearing the father’s profession should also be replaced by the professional manager’s system. Your son is high IQ, and you arrange for him to do something that requires IQ. As for my son’s growth and marital problems, I think this child seems to have been traumatized to some extent and has not been effectively treated. Therefore, at a convenient time, he is advised to go see a psychiatrist and make a complete system of treatment for some time. By then, your son may fall in love, and other problems may be solved.