现代儿童观不仅重视孩子对社会的价值，不因为孩子的弱小而轻视他们的权益，而且孩子不再是完全被动的保护对象，而是可以行使自己权利，积极的主动的主体。以保护孩子为出发点却侵犯孩子的权利，这是与现代教育观念相悖的行为。《未成年人保护法》中就规定：“任何组织和个人 The modern concept of children not only values ​​the children’s value to the society, but also ignores their rights and interests because of the children’s weaknesses. Moreover, children are no longer fully passive protection targets, but are subjects that can exercise their rights and active initiatives. Taking the protection of children as the starting point but infringing on children’s rights is an act that contradicts the concept of modern education. The “Law on the Protection of Minors” stipulates: "Any organization and individual