这是发生在一个美国家庭的两个真实场景。场景一:饭桌上,2岁多的女儿不肯喝牛奶,要像大人一样喝可乐。面对孩子的要求,父亲态度和蔼语气坚决地说了一句话:“喝完了牛奶,可在我杯里喝一口可乐。”隐含的选择是:你可以不喝牛奶,当然也没有可乐喝。请记住:口气坚决,是告诉孩子除此没有商量余地; This is the two real scenes that take place in a U.S. family. Scene 1: At the dinner table, a 2-year-old daughter refuses to drink milk and cola drinks like an adult. In the face of the child’s request, the father said with a gentle tone of kindness: “The drink of milk, drink a cup of cola in my glass. ” The implicit choice is: you can not drink milk, of course not Coke drink. Remember: tone is firm, is to tell the child there is no room for negotiation;