“要不是为你好,我才懒得说你呢。”这是那些喜欢给孩子说教的爸妈常挂在嘴边的话。为你好,所以才要对你说教;因为怕你这也不懂那也不懂,所以要把能想到的都告诉你;因为你不说话,我不知道你是不是听懂了,所以我要一直说下去,直到你听懂记住为止……初衷是好的,然而效果往往事与愿违。孩子往往接受不了这样的好,反而觉 “If you are not for hello, I was too lazy to say you. ” This is that those who like to preach to their children parents often talked words. Because hello, so we should preach to you; because you are afraid that you do not understand that do not know, so you can think of all tell you; because you do not speak, I do not know if you understand, so I Keep saying that until you understand what you remember ... The original intention is good, but the effect is often counterproductive. Children often can not accept such a good, but feel