恭维是客套，是一种交际方式，但过度的恭维却不然。一、本质虚伪古时候，有个人宴请宾朋，对每个客人都恭维几句。第一位客人来了，他问：“先生怎么来的？”客人应道：“骑马。”这人恭维道：“啊！威武得很！”第二位客人是坐轿来的，这人现出尊敬的模样：“啊！堂皇得很！ Compliment is polite, is a way of communication, but excessive compliment is not. First, the nature of hypocrisy In ancient times, a personal banquet guests and friends, each guest is a few words of compliment. The first guest came and he asked, “How did you come from?” The guest should say: “Horseback riding.” This man complimented: “Ah! Great!” The second guest came by the sedan chair, Showing a respected appearance: "ah!