改革开放以来,我国在经济上取得举世瞩目的成就,家庭经济生活如收入、住房、教育等物质条件也相应得到改善,但家庭成员的思想观念和价值取向日趋多元化,在对传统的家庭道德观念挑战的同时,也出现了一些荣辱标准混乱、价值观念扭曲、道德行为失范、子女教育有误、婚姻稳定性下降、家庭暴力增多等问题。这与构建社会主义和谐社会是背道而驰的,必须引起高度注意并切实加以解决。首先,家庭是社会的基本细胞。社会肌体的健康、活力、稳定和发展 Since the reform and opening up, China has made remarkable achievements in the economy. The economic conditions of the family such as income, housing and education have also been correspondingly improved. However, the concept of family members and their value orientation are increasingly diversified. In the traditional family ethics, At the same time, some problems such as confusion and standard of honor and honor, distortion of values, loss of moral behavior, education of their children, decline of marital stability and increase of domestic violence have also emerged. This runs counter to the socialist harmonious society and must be given high attention and effectively resolved. First, the family is the basic cell of society. The health, vitality, stability and development of the social body