有媒体采访我,问能否用一句话来解决现代人追逐成功的问题。我说很简单,就是“男怕跟错人,女怕上错床”。无论大家的独立意识有多强,以社会主流来看,让每个女孩子都追逐事业成功显然不靠谱,而除了出身之外,女人改变自己命运的最大机会,就是嫁人。往俗了讲,“上对床”的问题,关系到女人下半生的命运。 There are media interviews with me asking if we can solve the problem of modern chasing success with one sentence. I said very simple, that is, “men afraid of the wrong person, afraid of the wrong woman on the bed.” No matter how strong everyone’s sense of independence, to the mainstream of society, so that every girl chase the success of the business is obviously not fly, and in addition to origin, the woman the biggest opportunity to change their own destiny is to marry. To be vulgar, “on the bed ” issue, relates to the woman’s fate in the second half.