去年暑假,笔者花了两个星期的时间,深入到一家私人幼儿园了解目前幼儿心理发展的特点。这家幼儿园,暑假期间编成两个班级,一个3～4岁的托班,一个5～6周岁的中、小班,共65名儿童,85%是独生子女。通过观察了解,调查询问,发现这些幼儿存在着一些比较明显的不良行为,进一步分析,不难看到父母教育失当是造成这些不良行为的重要原因。 Last summer, I spent two weeks going deep into a private kindergarten to understand the current psychological characteristics of young children. The kindergarten is organized into two classes during the summer vacation, a three to four year old childcare care center, a medium and small class for children aged 5-6, a total of 65 children, and 85% of the children are only children. Through observation and investigation, we found that there are some obvious bad behaviors among these children. For further analysis, it is not difficult to see that parental misconduct is the important reason for these bad behaviors.