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如今,孩子读书已然不是孩子一个人的事情了。为了孩子的学习,为了孩子的将来,越来越多的家长或心甘情愿或被逼无奈地成了孩子的陪读。他们牺牲自己的时间,每天晚上挑灯陪伴在孩子身边,孩子不写完最后一个字、背完最后一个单词,他们就没完成任务;周末他们就是孩子的全职保姆,陪着孩子上各种兴趣班,帮着孩子完成学校布置的学习之外的作业。他们不辞辛苦,因为一切都是为了孩子。孩子的人生终究是要他自己走的,家长的帮扶只是其中的一小段。我们应该做的是,尽早让孩子做一只天空中翱翔的鸟,而不是温室里娇嫩的花。不要牺牲了我们自己的幸福,却给孩子换回一个脆弱的人生。
Nowadays, it is no longer child’s time for a child to read a book. For the children’s learning, for the children’s future, more and more parents are either willing or forced to become children’s reading companions. They sacrificed their time, every night with lights beside the child, the children do not finish the last word, the last word back, they did not complete the task; weekends they are full-time child’s nanny, with the children on a variety of interest classes , Help the children to complete the school layout of homework other than homework. They worked tirelessly because everything was for children. After all, the child’s life is to go for himself, and parental support is only a small part of it. What we should do is to have the child make a flying bird in the sky as early as possible rather than the delicate flower in the greenhouse. Do not sacrifice our own happiness, but give the children a friable life.