出轨是对夫妻感情的巨大伤害,当你突然发现对方的“秘密”时,除了愤怒、抓狂,还要学会正确处理,将感情伤害降至最低。5个步骤可以帮助你正确走过这段痛苦期。步骤一:自问几个问题,看是否要再给对方一次机会。首先,回想一下他过去是否有过出轨,此类行为一旦成为习惯很难戒除,绝不能出现第二次。接着设身处地思考一下,自己处于同种境况是否也会出轨。其次,他是否给你“再出轨就遭重罚”的承诺。最后思考 Derailment is a huge harm to the feelings of the couple, when you suddenly found each other’s “secret”, in addition to anger, crazy, but also learn to deal with correctly, to minimize emotional damage. 5 steps can help you through this painful period correctly. Step one: Ask yourself a few questions, see if you want to give each other a chance. First, recall that he had derailed in the past, and once such behavior is hard to get rid of, it must not occur for the second time. Then put yourself in thought, whether in the same situation will derail themselves. Second, he promised to “severely punish him again”. Final thinking