“洞房花烛夜,金榜题名时。”这是中国古代知识分子最高的奢望,我有幸品尝过这种欢乐。往事如烟,我和妻已是白头老伴,但当年婚礼中的父亲形象却永不消逝。父亲是农村小学教员,兼种田,因子女众多,家庭生计艰难,考虑到田地少,子女长大分家后更无立锥之地,因此竭力设法让子女读书, “The opening night of the bridal chamber is the title of the golden list.” This is the highest hope of intellectuals in ancient China, and I have had the privilege of having such a joy. In the past, my wife and I were whiteheads, but my father’s image at the wedding never died. The father is a rural elementary school teacher, who is also a farmer. He has a large number of females and has a difficult livelihood. Taking into account the fact that there are few fields, the children grow up and have no standing cones after separation. Therefore, every effort is made to get their children to study.