国外有专家曾对2700人进行了长达14年的跟踪调查,结果发现在这些人中,人际关系好的人寿命都比脾气古怪偏执的孤独者高出许多。而美国著名心理学家弗里德曼和莱斯利·马丁经过20年的研究,总结出了影响寿命的六大要素:人际关系好、生活态度积极、偶尔拍点马屁、看上去更年轻、戒除不良习惯和与健康者为伍。这其中,人际关系被排在了 Foreign experts have conducted a survey of 2,700 people for up to 14 years and found that among these people, people with good interpersonal relationships have much higher life expectancy than loners with eccentric temper. The well-known American psychologist Friedman and Leslie Martin, after 20 years of research, summed up the six elements that affect life expectancy: good interpersonal relationships, positive attitude to life, occasional flattering, looks younger , Quit bad habits and be healthy. Among these, relationships were ranked