民间有一句俗话:“人人都会发脾气。”此所谓“人人”,既包括成人,也包括孩子。在现实生活中,成人在受到委屈、遭到冷遇或心情不佳时,往往会利用适当的机会、方式进行宣泄,让“憋”着的气“散”出来。同样,孩子在幼儿园或家庭生活中,也会碰到不舒心的事儿。或老师冷漠了自己,或是受了大孩子的欺侮,或是衣服穿得不称心、饭菜不合口味,或是自己的需要得不到满足、父母的许诺不能及时兑现等等。这些情况都容易使孩子紧张焦虑,失去心理平衡,从而发生冲动的行为(亦即发脾气),如大哭大闹,高声喊叫,摔玩具,撕画 There is a folk saying: “Everyone will lose his temper.” This so-called “all” includes both adults and children. In real life, when adults suffer grievances, cold encounters or bad moods, they often use appropriate opportunities and means to vent their secrets so that the atmosphere of “holding back” can be “scattered”. Similarly, children in the kindergarten or family life, will encounter something uncomfortable. Or the teacher indifference himself, or by the bullying of older children, or clothes are not satisfied, food unpalatable, or their own needs are not met, parents promised not to be honored in time. These conditions are easy to make the child nervous anxiety, loss of psychological balance, and thus impulsive behavior (ie, temper), such as crying, shouting, throwing toys, tearing