我女儿3岁,聪明、漂亮、好学、自尊心强。她对熟悉的、喜欢的人很好,远远看见就叫,对其他人要么不叫,要么说“干吗?”胆子很大,越是上台表演或参加比赛越来精神。认为自己对的,她会和别人争,敢和任何人吵架,周围的人都叫她小辣椒。她倔起来不得了,比如,她拿了一包糖,我吃了其中一颗,她不乐意,就非要我吃的那颗,拿一模一样的给她都不行,要闹很久。对这样的孩子,我该如何调教呢? My daughter is 3 years old, smart, beautiful, studious, strong self-esteem. She is familiar to those who love, good to see, called far to see, or not to say to other people, or say “why?” "Very courageous, the more stage performance or participate in the competition more and more spirit. Think of yourself, she will fight with others, dare to quarrel with anyone, surrounded by people called her little pepper. For example, she took a pack of sugar and I ate one of them. She did not like it. She wanted me to eat the same kind of food and did not give her exactly the same. How should I teach such children?