一些学生往往将自己的“与众不同”向消极的方面看,找不到努力的理由。我们需要教会他们用一种正确的方式审视自己,让他们的生活会变得轻松愉快起来。一有一种痛叫生长痛,因长骨生长较快、与局部肌肉和筋腱的生长发育不协调等而导致的生理性疼痛。我们班上的一位学生患上了这种生长痛,不过她患的是心理性的。这种痛常常隐隐发作,似乎寻找不到痛之所在,却感觉深入骨髓,挥之不去。 Some students tend to be “different” to their own negative aspects, can not find a reason for hard work. We need to teach them to look at themselves in the right way to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. There is a pain called growth pain, due to the rapid growth of long bones, and local muscle and tendon growth and development are not coordinated and so on caused by physiological pain. A student in our class was suffering from this growth, but she was psychologically ill. This pain often faint, it seems that the pain can not find the place, but feel the marrow, linger.