江苏省南通市一家长来信说:孩子上小学三年级,他越来越不喜欢学习,经常不完成家庭作业,还常找借口不上学,成绩直线下降。真不知该怎么办?答:孩子有问题,我们通常会看得很清楚。现在我们来看看自己有没有以下问题。1.是否经常拿学习来惩罚孩子?“写错一个字罚写一页”“做错一题罚做十题”……这会使孩子觉得“学习”不是好事情。 A letter from a parent in Nantong City, Jiangsu Province, said: The third grade of children in primary school, he does not like learning more and more, often do not complete homework, often find excuses not to go to school, the score plummeted. I really do not know what to do? A: Children have problems, we usually see very clearly. Now let’s see if we have the following questions. 1. Do you often take learning to punish a child? “Write the wrong word for one page” “Make a mistake for one question and do ten questions” ... This will make children think “learning” is not a good thing.