教育是每个人健康成长的基石和关键,是一个复杂而又系统的工程。完整意义上的教育应该由家庭、学校和社会三部分组成。目前学校教育似乎担当了家庭教育和社会教育的桥梁,学校成为了对家长进行家庭教育指导的主要实施阵地。我们的青少年至少生活在三个系统中:家庭系统、社会(学校)系统和同伴系统,这三个系统有些部分是重叠的,因此只管一个系统是不够的。学校是一个很重要的系统。很多家庭环境不好的孩子,因为碰到 Education is the cornerstone and key to everyone’s healthy growth. It is a complex and systematic project. The complete sense of education should be composed of family, school and society. At present school education seems to serve as a bridge between family education and social education, and schools have become the main front for family education guidance to parents. Our teenagers live in at least three systems: the family system, the social (school) system and the companion system. Some of these three systems overlap, so a single system is not enough. School is a very important system. Many poor family environment because of the child