孩子们所经历的事情不多,当面对挫折时,他们不懂得如何处理自己的挫败感,只能任挫败感在头脑中蔓延、繁殖,在这种情况下,孩子很容易养成悲观的性格。我曾这样教育过一个孩子:这个孩子学习很不错,但由于考试之前生了一场病,这次成绩很不理想。当成绩单发下来时,她趴在桌子上哭了一节课。我把这个孩子叫到办公室,本想安慰她一番,还没等我开口,这个孩子就不停地说了起来:“老师,我再也考不好了,我落下了很多课,而且落下的那些课 Children experience little when faced with setbacks, they do not know how to deal with their own frustration, can only frustration spread in the mind, breeding, in this case, the child is likely to develop pessimistic character. I had educated a child like this: The child was good at learning, but the result was unsatisfactory because of a disease before the exam. When the transcript was sent down, she cried for a class on the table. I called this kid into my office, and I wanted to comfort her. Before I opened my mouth, the child kept saying: ”Teacher, I will not test well anymore. I’ve dropped a lot of classes, and Those classes fall