教育家陶行知曾经说过:“我们对于儿童有两种极端的心理,都于儿童有害。一是忽视;二是期望太切。忽视则任其像茅草样自生自灭,期望太切不免揠苗助长,反而促其夭折。所以合理的教导是解除儿童痛苦,增进儿童幸福之正确路线。”其实,人的一生就是一个经历的过程,接触的过程。比如语言的学习就需要经历,需要接触。如果一个 Tao Xingzhi, an educator, once said: “We have two extreme psychologies for children, both of which are harmful to children: one is neglect; the other is too desperate expectations; However, reasonable teaching is the correct way to relieve children’s pain and promote children’s happiness. ”In fact, a person’s life is an experienced process and an exposed process. Such as language learning needs experience, you need to contact. If one