战国时期,赵国有一位驰骋疆场、战功赫赫的大将赵奢。他不以自己功高,就要求荫庇子孙,给儿子讨个一官半职,而是从国家利益出发,临终留下遗言,说儿子赵括只会纸上谈兵,不能重用。他说:“使赵不将括则已,若必将之,破赵军者必括也。”后来,赵母听说赵王派赵括领兵出战,亲自上朝极力劝阻。赵母对赵王说:“括不可使将。”并把儿子的缺点直陈赵王,要赵王收回成命。她对孩子的弱点,不是浮光掠影,轻描淡写,而是从德、才、实践经验 During the Warring States Period, Zhao had a gallop of battlefield, meritorious general Zhao Zhao luxury. He did not ask for his grandson to seek refuge in his own country. Instead, he asked his son to seek a one-time official status. However, starting from the national interest, he left a last-minute deathbed saying that his son, Zhao Ku, would only speak on paper and not be reused. He said: “Let Zhao not rule by now, if it is bound to break the Zhao army must also.” “Later, Zhao mother heard that Zhao Zhao sent troops led by Kuomintang personally personally tried to discourage. Zhao Zhao Zhao Wang said: ”Including may not be. " And the son of the shortcomings Chen Chen Zhao Wang, Wang Zhao recovered. Her weakness to children is not a glimpse of skimming, understatement, but from Germany, talent, practical experience