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一忌溺爱娇宠。对孩子不能溺爱,成人爱孩子应与严格要求相结合。溺爱是无原则、无要求的爱,孩子想要什么就给什么,想做什么就做什么,结果使孩子变得任性,心中只有自己,没有他人,个人私欲无限膨帐,缺乏对别人的同情与关心。这样的人不受他人和社会的欢迎,自己也会终生痛苦。二忌保护过分。对孩子的保护和帮助是必要的,但不能过分。孩子能自己做的事就让他自己做,不要怕做不好,不要怕失败,不要怕犯错误。犯错误是孩子的权利。孩子就是在不断的尝试错误、改正错误中发展的。只要没有太大的危险,就应让孩子尝试去做各
A bogey love spoiled. Children can not spoil, adults love children should be combined with strict requirements. Dotted love is a principleless, unquestioned love, what the child wants, what he wants to do, and the result is that the child becomes self-willed, with only himself, no one in his heart, unlimited personal gain, lack of sympathy for others With care. Such people are not welcomed by others and the community, they will suffer for life. Two bogey to protect too much. The protection and help of children is necessary, but not too much. Let the children do their own thing, do not be afraid to do well, do not be afraid of failure, do not be afraid to make mistakes. Making mistakes is the child’s right. Children are constantly trying to make mistakes, correct mistakes in the development. As long as there is not much danger, let the children try to do it