“理解”是什么?我从未想过,现在想来,也许我理解了他。父亲的去世使我们家陷入一种说不清的境况,妈妈显得衰老了许多,常常在厨房里唉声叹气,还不时抹着眼泪。 What is “understanding”? I never thought about it. I want to come now. Maybe I understand him. The death of my father brought our family into a state of indefinableness. My mother appeared to be much older. She often sighed in the kitchen, and she often wiped her tears.