当今社会中普遍倡导“赏识”教育,但笔者认为,在提倡表扬、奖励、赏识的同时,还应重视“惩罚”在教育中的积极作用,因为惩罚在很多时候更能有效培养孩子的责任心。当一个人犯错后,内心都有一种接受惩罚的准备,表现为一种自发的害怕,这是一种心理需求,即以愧疚为自己的过失承担责任,以获得心理平衡。即使是那些年龄很小的孩子,或是社会化程度 In today’s society, “education” is generally advocated. However, in the meantime, we should pay attention to the positive role of “punishment” in education because it advocates recognition, reward and appreciation, because punishment can be effectively and effectively developed in many cases Child’s sense of responsibility. When a person makes a mistake, there is a kind of preparation for punishment in the heart, which manifests itself as a spontaneous fear. This is a psychological need. That is, he takes guilt as his own fault and takes psychological balance. Even those who are young children, or the degree of socialization