自己不参与吃喝,往往会让人认为你做作或别有用心,最起码也要把你看作是另类而冷落你。因为在官场,酒场也是情意场,它关乎面子,关乎站队,关乎信任。读了《北京文学》上马语的大文,触动心弦,也想就中国的铺排、奢侈、面子和大吃大喝说几句一己之言。就我的切身体验,这些现象的泛滥,远非世人愤愤议论得那么简单,它有更深层的原因,譬如文化作用,譬如行为惯性。 Do not participate in their own eating and drinking, often people think you make or have ulterior motives, at least you have to think of you as an alternative and left out to you. Because in the officialdom, wine market is also the emotional field, it is about face, about the station team, about trust. Read the “Beijing Literature” launched a large language, touches the heart, but also want to China’s arrangement, luxury, face and eating and drinking to say a few words. In my personal experience, the proliferation of these phenomena is far from being as simple as the anger of the world. It has deeper reasons, such as its role in culture, such as inertia of behavior.