我和妻是在一次各自为正方、反方的辩论赛上相识的。步入“围城”之后,这嘴上互不相让的“惯性”竟成了我们之间的一种美丽的“毛病”。 有时唱的反调其实是“新调”。打小就喜欢冷色调的妻所有的衣物不是灰的就是蓝的,要不就是黑的,她还挺有歪理,说什么冷色调给人以成熟、稳重的感觉。我终于忍无可忍,将了她一军:“你逃避暖色调,恰恰暴露出你不敢显示个性,压抑自己对生活的激情。”尽管她回敬了我一句“你这是偏见”,但她在自己30岁生日时,偷偷地买了一件红T恤衫,悄悄穿上后,同事称赞她年轻了五六岁,她才开始不时地穿些比较艳的衣服。我暗自为自己的反调改变了她的偏好而高兴。 有时我的反调其实是“变调”,也就是从辨证法的角度表明我的见解。孩子3岁时,妻突然要开发孩子的智力,愣说弹电子琴 My wife and I met each other for the square, the opposition debate debate. After entering the “Besieged City”, this “inertia” of the mouth to each other has become a beautiful “problem” between us. In fact, sometimes the antithesis of singing is “new tune.” Small play on the cold like the wife of all the clothes are not gray is blue, or black, she quite right, what to say cool color gives a mature, steady feeling. I finally could not stand it and took her to the army: “You avoid warm colors, just revealing that you are afraid to show your personality and suppress your passion for life.” Although she answered my “You are biased, 30th birthday, secretly bought a red T-shirt, put on quietly, colleagues commended her young five or six years old, she began to wear some of the more colorful clothes from time to time. I am secretly pleased that my reaction has changed her preferences. Sometimes my anti-tune is actually ”tone", which is from the angle of dialectics to show my opinion. 3-year-old child, his wife suddenly want to develop the child’s intelligence, stunned to play the organ