问:我从小性格就比较孤僻,即使在教会里,我的朋友也很少。十多人一起吃饭,我可以一言不发。我深知自己不够合群,也试图改变,但总觉得那样好像戴着面具做人,非常累!可是若不改变我的性格,恐怕没人会喜欢我。我当怎么办? Q: I was a little eccentric from an early age, and even in the church, my friends are few. More than a dozen people eat together, I can not say a word. I knew I was not gregarious and tried to change, but I always felt that it was as if I was wearing a mask and very tired! But nobody would like me if I did not change my character. What should I do?