女儿今年十八岁,在龙虾餐厅给她过生日时,我和她开玩笑说,按照美国的传统,吃完今天的晚餐,你就要整理行李搬出去独立生活了。女儿斜睨着我,回了一句:I am not ready(我还没准备好)。言语中我感觉到她对我的某种依赖和不舍。听她这么说,我反倒有些喜不自胜的满意,这毕竟说明我这个父亲在女儿心目中还是很重要的。 When I was 18 years old this year and gave her her birthday at the lobster restaurant, I joked with her that according to the American tradition, after having finished today’s dinner, you have to organize your luggage and move out to live independently. My daughter tilted at me and said: I am not ready (I’m not ready yet). In my speech, I feel her some dependence on me and dismay. Listening to her said, I actually have some complacent satisfaction, after all, indicating that my father is still very important in her daughter’s mind.