陈红:我很赞同小巫的观点,要让孩子承担行为后果,但它应该是在准确把握孩子的状态,理解孩子行为的动机的前提下使用。举个例子,去年8～10月,我女儿突然拒绝刷牙洗脸,每天晚上保姆帮她刷牙,洗脸时,她就满屋子跑,我和老公帮她洗也不行。11月初保姆临时回家了。当晚,刷牙和洗脸问题就解决了,小家伙非常配合,而且还提醒我:“妈妈,我还没刷 Chen Hong: I very much agree with the witch’s point of view, let the children bear the consequences of the act, but it should be accurate grasp of the child’s state, the motivation to understand the child’s behavior under the premise. For example, last August to October, my daughter suddenly refused to brush your teeth and wash your face every night to help her brush her teeth. When she was washing her face, she ran full house, and her husband helped her to wash it. The nanny came home temporarily in early November. That night, brush your teeth and wash your face to solve the little guy very much, but also remind me: ”Mom, I have not brush