我曾对56个2.5～3岁幼儿作过一次关于独生子女独立生活能力的专题调查,调查项目包括吃饭、穿衣、穿鞋、大小便这4个最基本的项目。调查结果是56个孩子中,除有15个孩子会自己坐盆大小便外,其他吃饭、穿衣、穿鞋三个项目竟没有一个孩子会独立完成。孩子长到2岁,已经有了一定体力,活动能力也日渐增强。他们好动、好问、好模仿,好奇心强,教他们学做什么比较容易被接受。因此,家长只要耐心培养,孩子是可以学会自己吃饭、穿衣、穿鞋、大小便等基本生活技能的,然而调查结果却是这种情况,这是为什么呢?造成这一情况,家教不当是主要原因。由于独生子女没有兄弟姐妹,孩子便成为父母的掌上明珠,全家的服务中心。不但父母围着孩子转,甚至连祖父母、外 I once conducted a special survey of 56 2.5-3 year-olds on the ability of an only child to live independently. The survey included four basic items: eating, dressing, wearing shoes and urinating. The survey results of 56 children, in addition to 15 children sitting in their own toilet, the other eating, dressing, wearing shoes, three projects did not have a child will be done independently. Children grow up to 2 years old, already have a certain degree of physical activity capacity is also growing. They are agile, good question, good imitation, strong curiosity, teach them to learn what to do more easily accepted. Therefore, as long as the parents train patiently, children can learn to eat, dress, shoes, urine and other basic life skills, but the survey results are the case, which is why? This situation, tutor inappropriate main reason. As the only child without siblings, the child became the palm of his parents, the family’s service center. Not only parents around their children, and even grandparents, outside