时下人们议论、评价、赞美那些成功者或者佼佼者时,喜欢用这样的时髦话:一个成功的男人后面必然有个贤惠的女人,或者:一个女强人背后一定有个开明的男人。家庭的作用,亲情的重要,在这里被淋漓尽致地表现出来。作为夫妻,不论发生了什么,也不管是谁是主次,人们想到的总是两个人的世界。法定的程序让两个走在了一起,连接他们的不光是婚姻,是感情,是血肉,还有围绕着两个人而派生出的更多,更复杂的亲情关系:儿女、兄妹、父母、姑叔、舅姨……中国人有“五府”之说,七大姑八大姨,亲连着亲,情滚着情,如此一算,拉不起支队伍也差不多。亲戚多了是好事。有个什么事要帮忙,一招呼就能“呼啦”来一大帮。中国人讲究三从四德,还提倡与人为善,这就更使人们有理由形成了一条所谓的基因链。尽管这其中许多人并没有或者很少有血缘关系,但只要沾上点光,也就算是自家人了。“我家的表叔数不清。”铁梅所说的表叔概念不同,但对有些家庭来说,这样的表叔确实很多。亲戚多是好事,但反过来也是麻烦。自古至今,人都愿攀高枝,要是亲戚中有哪个混出个模样来,或者发了财什么的,就等着瞧吧!家里的门槛被踩烂是小事,接连不断的“请求”简直要人命。不帮,会落个无情无义的埋 People nowadays talk about, evaluate, and praise those successful or outstanding people, like to use such a fashionable words: behind a successful man must have a virtuous woman, or: Behind a strong woman must have an enlightened man. The role of the family, the importance of affection, here is vividly demonstrated. As a couple, no matter what happens, no matter who is the primary or secondary, people always think of the world of two people. The legal process brought the two together, connecting them not only with marriages, with feelings, with flesh and blood, but also with more and more complex relationships of affection surrounding two people: children, siblings, parents, Uncle, aunt ... ... Chinese people have “Five House ” said the seven aunt eight aunt, pro-linked, affectionate love, so a count, can not pull up the support team is also similar. More relatives is a good thing. There is a matter to help, a hello can “hula ” to a big help. Chinese people pay attention to three from four virtues, but also advocates good with others, which makes it more reasonable for people to form a so-called genetic chain. Although many of these people have no or very few blood ties, but as long as the touch of light, it is their own family. “My uncle’s uncle is unclear.” “Tiemei said the uncle’s concept is different, but for some families, this uncle is indeed a lot. Many relatives are good, but in turn are troublesome. Since ancient times, people are willing to climb the branches, if any of the relatives mixed out a look, or what made a fortune, wait and see! The threshold of the family was stammer is a trivial, successive ”request" simply To human life. Not help, will be a heartless buried