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有些父母在教育孩子注意安全时,习惯用危险事件吓唬孩子,殊不知,这会使孩子变得胆小,甚至厌学。这是为什么呢?首先,孩子小时候以自我为中心,他会以为发生的任何事情都与自己有关。家长对危险的担忧传递到孩子那里,孩子就会以为诸如飞机失事这些危险与自己有关,会以为诸如这样的危险有一天也会降临到自己和家人身上。其次,孩子信仰权威,大人说的话即使不对,也会被小孩子奉为圣旨。大人如果在孩子有一些探索举动时,为了他的安全故意吓唬他,孩子不会以为大人说得不对,而会认为是自己不对,久而久之,孩子就会变得不再敢于探索外面的世界,变得谨小慎微和孤僻。
Some parents, when teaching their children to beware of safety, are used to scaring their children with dangerous events, which, as everyone knows, can make children timid or even tired of learning. Why is this? First of all, when a child is self-centered, he thinks anything that happens is about himself. Parents’ concerns about danger are passed on to their children, and children may think that the dangers such as a plane crash are related to themselves, and the danger such as this one may come to them and their family one day. Second, the authority of the child’s beliefs, adults say even if wrong, will be regarded as small imperial edict. If an adult has intentionally scared him for his safety while he or she is exploring something, the child will not think that he or she is wrong, but will think that he or she is not right. As time passes, the child will no longer dare to explore the outside world. To be cautious and withdrawn.