当分离必须发生的时候,父母如能不只哀叹和流泪,或许孩子仍会感觉家人的爱,连续性发展不被打断,并获得足够的成长。家庭有着难以想象的力量,它成就人,有时也会伤人于无形,导致孩子出现品行问题、心理问题、社会适应问题。在一些亲子关系不良的家庭中,在一些认知、行为、情感发育或社会关系创建上困难重重的孩子身上,我们常常能看到早期分离的经历、寄养 When separation must take place, if parents can not only lament and cry, perhaps their children will still feel the love of their families, the continuity of development will not be interrupted and sufficient growth will be achieved. The family has unimaginable power, its achievements, and sometimes hurt people invisible, leading to moral behavior problems, psychological problems, social adaptation problems. In some families with poor parent-child relationships, we often see early experiences of separation and foster care in children who are struggling to create cognitive, behavioral, emotional, or social relationships