人对自己的生活,肯定是要有规划的,但当新的事件发生的时候,你要有能力修改自己的计划。当然,我这里说的是比较短期的计划,而不是讲你的人生目标翻手为云、覆手为雨地变个不停。如果你不能放下已经规划好的生活,就无法迎接那些等待着你的新的生活。走错了,能不能回到开始的那一点,重新开始?有的时候可以,大部分时候不可以。因为你已经输掉了信任和时间。人不可能重新踏入同一条河流,更不要 People must have a plan for their own life, but when a new incident occurs, you have the ability to modify your plan. Of course, I am talking about here is a relatively short-term plan, not to talk about your life goals turned over the clouds, overhand for the rain to change non-stop. If you can not let go of your planned life, you will not be able to welcome the new life awaiting you. Wrong, can we go back to the beginning of the point, start again? Sometimes can, most of the time can not. Because you’ve lost trust and time. It is impossible for people to re-enter the same river, not to mention it