前一段时间,一位朋友跟我诉苦:“这些日子,我快崩溃了,家里老母亲卧病在床,兄弟几个轮流伺候,一时半会不见好转;公司里忙着上新项目,我又是骨干,必须参加;明年还要参加建筑师资格考试,教材没看多少,心里一点底也没有;更倒霉的是不知怎么开罪了顶头上司,他常常和我过不去……”朋友一向很要强,不是心里憋不住,他不会轻易吐苦水。看着他沮丧的脸色,我絮絮叨叨说了不少劝慰、开导的话,但心里清楚不见得会有什么效 Some time ago, a friend complained to me: “These days, I almost collapsed, the old mother lying in bed at home, my brother took turns taking turns, half past one will not be improved; the company busy with new projects, and I again Is the backbone, you must attend; next year to participate in the architect qualification exam, teaching materials did not look much, my heart did not end there; even more unlucky is that I do not know how to offend the boss, he often and I do not go ... ... ”Friends have always been very strong , Not my heart could not wait, he will not easily vomit bitter water. Looking at his depressed face, I spoke a lot of persuasion, enlightenment, but my heart clearly not necessarily what effect