【内容纲要】1.注重“过程”的重要性2.解决问题的紧迫性3.教学中如何做到关注“过程”4.“过程”与“结果”的关系一对夫妻,当一方的能力特别强,而且又能干,包揽了所有家务,另一方就会慢慢变得什么都不干,什么都不会干了。原本会做的,时间久了,也渐渐退化、消失。带孩子也一样,父母包揽孩子的一切,孩子的能力就会很差。这是什么原因呢?一句话,“包办代 [Outline] 1. Attention to the importance of ”process“ 2. The urgency to solve the problem 3. How to be concerned about teaching ”process“ 4. ”Process“ and ”Result“ relationship A husband and wife, when one party is particularly capable, and able to do all the housework, the other party will slowly become nothing, nothing will do. The original will do, a long time, but also gradually degradation, disappear. The same with children, parents take everything a child, children’s ability will be poor. What is the reason? In a word, ”package on behalf of