专家认为:当前家庭教育最大的误区是“高期望的人才观,不平等的亲子观和不科学的教育观”。很多家长总是强调自己工作忙,而很少停下来或花些时间与孩子进行情感交流,很少去了解孩子、理解孩子,不去主动与孩子沟通、和孩子交朋友,形成了深深的“代沟”。我们夫妻工作都很忙,我是一个教育工作者,在孩子成长过程中,也有许多失败,走过弯路,有过教训。作为家长,我觉得最重要的是让孩子主动积极地发展。而要让孩子得到 Experts believe that: The current misunderstanding of family education is “high expectations of talented people, unequal view of parent-child and unscientific education.” Many parents always emphasize their busy work, and rarely stop or spend time with their children emotional exchanges, seldom to understand children, understand children, do not take the initiative to communicate with their children, make friends with their children, formed a deep “Generation gap ”. We husband and wife work are very busy, I am an educator, in the process of child development, there are many failures, detours, have learned. As a parent, I think the most important thing is to let the children actively develop. And let the children get it