母亲和父亲结婚的前5年,两地分居。他们在相隔100公里的两个城市。在交通、通信不发达的30多年前,工作忙碌的父母沟通和相聚的机会不是很多。妈妈是爸爸的爱妻,不是奶奶钦选的儿媳妇,所以奶奶对妈妈不冷不热,关系不好。妈妈生我的时候,爸爸还没调回来,奶奶不肯过来帮助妈妈,妈 In the first 5 years of marriage between mother and father, the two separated. They are in two cities 100 kilometers apart. More than 30 years ago, there were not many opportunities for busy working parents to communicate and gather together in underdeveloped areas such as transportation and communications. Mom is the father’s wife, not a grandmother elected daughter, so grandma mother to the lukewarm, the relationship is not good. When my mother gave birth to me, my father did not transfer it back. Grandma would not come to help her mother, mother