“孝”之为伦理要求与规范，在几千年的中国社会，一直到现在，其力量都十分强大。现实中，常能见到“孝”之感人场面，但也时不时发现它给人带来的巨大困惑。对“孝”，当然能够从学术上作出各种证明与解释，但本文力图撇开此路，贴近现实，直接切入“孝”之精神与内容。一“ “Filial piety” is an ethical requirement and standard. In Chinese society for thousands of years, its power is very strong up till now. In reality, we can often see touching scenes of “filial piety”, but from time to time we find that it brings great confusion to people. Of “filial piety”, of course, can make a variety of academic proof and explanation, but this article seeks to put aside this path, close to the reality, directly into the “filial piety” of the spirit and content. one"