表扬好比加油站,表扬会让学生体验到成就感、自豪感、幸福感,但不恰当的表扬正好相反。如果不注意自己的言语和表达方式,会使表扬无形中异化成一把伤害学生的利器。一位学生在日记中这样写道:这次期中考试,我取得了进步,老师表扬了我,但我一点也不高兴。听着老师的表扬,心里倒有些酸酸 Complimenting the gas station, praising students will experience the sense of accomplishment, pride, happiness, but the wrong praise is the opposite. If you do not pay attention to your own words and expressions, will praise the alienation into a harm to students sharp weapon. A student wrote in her diary: I have made progress in this midterm exam. The teacher praised me, but I am not happy at all. Listening to the teacher’s commendation, the heart down some sour