人生,充满着悲欢离合,充满了各种幸福和不幸。回味往事和故人,固然有种种苦涩,然于苦涩中,却也能时时体悟到人与人之间亲和的一面。去年清明,我与妻返故乡开封祭奠已去世的父亲和岳父岳母,便突然想起一个人,一个默默无闻却使我们永远怀念的人。十多位家人,虔敬地在先辈的骨灰盒前摆上点心、水果等供品,并卷了许多黄表纸,放在已画好却并不封严的圈内,大家含着泪,喃喃地说些告慰先辈的话。当大姐正准备烧纸时,妻拿了一部分果点及烧 Life, full of joys and sorrows, full of all kinds of happiness and misfortune. Reminiscing past and the enemy, of course, there are all kinds of bitterness, but in the bitter, but also from time to time realize the affinity between people side. Last year, Ching Ming, my wife and I returned to my hometown in Kaifeng to pay homage to the deceased father and father-in-law, they suddenly remembered a person, an unknown but kept us forever miss people. More than a dozen family, reverently placed in front of the ancestral urns snacks, fruits and other supplies, and rolled up a lot of yellow paper, has been painted but not sealed circle, everyone with tears, murmured Say something to comfort your fathers. When the eldest sister is preparing to burn the paper, the wife takes part of the fruit and burns