经常听到有些父母抱怨自己的孩子:你要他做点力所能及的小事,他不理不睬,甚至用白眼回敬你;你耐心给他讲道理,却遭到无理反驳;你批评他的错误行为,他却“砰”的一声摔门而去……我们不禁要问,孩子们为什么要和大人作对?心理学家认为,他们这样做大多是为了引起别人的注意,或是用这种方式来显示自己与大人争论的能力。当然,不能把孩子所有的顶撞统统视为与父母作对,因为当孩 You often hear some parents complain about their children: You want him to do whatever he can, ignore it, or even give his own eyes. You patiently give reason to him, but he is unreasonably refuted. You criticize his wrongdoing , But he was slamming away. We can not help asking why children should fight adults, and psychologists think they mostly do so to attract the attention of others or use this Way to show their ability to argue with adults. Of course, all the children can not be regarded as a top collision against their parents, because when the child