如同冰炭之不可同器,在许多人看来,正直和圆通也是一对无法兼容的矛盾体。一个人,若被人称为正直,就不可能圆通;若被人称作圆通,就意味着他与正直绝了缘。而且,正直被认为是一种美德,爱屋及乌,正直者会被人们称道和赞扬;与此相反,圆通的声誉就不大,几近圆滑与世故的同义词,因而许多人躲 Like many ice people, Integrity and Yuantong are incompatible contradictions. If a person is called an upright person, it can not be tactful; if it is called a tact, it means that he has no connection with integrity. Moreover, integrity is considered to be a virtue, a lover of love, and a man of honor who is praised and praised; on the contrary, Yuantong’s reputation is small and nearly synonymous with sophistication and sophistication so many people hide