儿子两岁时我上班了,刚开始没事,最近半年来总是不喜欢我去上班。每天晚上都不住地求我:妈妈明天别去上班好吗?我很心疼,但又没办法,我该怎么做才能降低对他的伤害?解答一:你儿子正在经历“分离焦虑”。分离焦虑是指幼儿和亲密的抚养者之间突然分离时所表现出来的不安情绪和行为,指向对分离的抵抗、拒绝。分离焦虑几乎每个孩子都会有,只是轻重程度不同,你儿子的表现在正常的分离反应范围内。你并不是抛弃他, When I was two years old, my son went to work. At first, he was okay and I did not like to go to work in the last six months. Do not beg for me every night: Mommy, do not go to work tomorrow? I feel bad, but no way, what can I do to reduce the harm to him? Answer one: Your son is experiencing “separation anxiety.” Separation anxiety refers to unease and behavior manifested in the sudden separation between young children and close dependents, pointing to resistance to separation and refusal. Separation anxiety Almost every child will have, but the severity of your son’s performance in the normal separation reaction. You do not abandon him