为父虽然难,但是还要做下去。鲁迅先生曾有《我们现在怎样做父亲》的大作,受其启示,也来谈谈这个涉及军人家庭的话题。笔者以为要做一个好父亲,应从以下三个方面人手: 一、平淡看待父子关系。如果以为老子对儿子有恩,就要有绝对的权力和威严,若是老子说话,当然无所不可,儿子有话,却在未说 Although difficult for the father, but still have to do. Mr. Lu Xun had a masterpiece of “How We Daddy Now”. Inspired by it, he also talked about this topic involving military families. I think to be a good father, should be manpower from the following three aspects: First, a plain view of the relationship between father and son. If I think I have the grace of son, we must have absolute power and dignity, if I talk, of course, omnipotent, son has something, but did not say