打人、揍人通常都会在气头上发生——当你很生气、很害怕或陷入挫折当中,却不知道还可以做什么的时候。但是,当你可以控制自己的生气时,相对的,你也就比较能够控制你的孩子了。而且当你能够跳出自己当下的反应来看时,你就能发现管教问题的长远解决方法。以下列出我从专家们——家长本身,学来的一些有效替代方式。一位妈妈说,通常她也不认同打人。但是,在她三岁的女儿把自己的手指头伸进插座 Hitting and beating often happens in the air - when you’re angry, scared or frustrated, but do not know what else to do. However, when you can control your own anger, you are more likely to control your child. And when you look beyond your immediate reaction, you find the long-term solution to discipline problems. Here’s a list of some of the effective alternatives I learned from experts - parents themselves. One mother said she usually does not agree with hitting anyone. However, her three-year-old daughter put her finger into the socket