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当相互理解、解决问题等沟通的初衷被指责和抱怨屏蔽时,说话也就变成了一种暴力。把对话的关注点转向彼此的感受和需要,才是使沟通成为可能的第一步。关于这个栏目成为父母,婚姻不仅关乎两个人。更是孩子成长的“背景音乐”。因此,锻造婚姻,成为新手父母不能忽视的重要课题。本栏目由资深家庭治疗师龙迪老师主持。每期她将回应一个从读者中来的小故事,带领大家从个人、关系、社会多层面反思婚姻困境,探寻建设婚姻的创意可能。
When the original intention of mutual understanding, problem solving and other communication is criticized and shielded, speaking becomes a kind of violence. It is the first step in making communication possible by turning the focus of conversation to the feelings and needs of each other. About this section to become parents, marriage is not only about two people. More is the child’s growth “background music ”. Therefore, forging marriage, become an important issue that novice parents can not ignore. This section is presided over by a senior family therapist Long Di teacher. Each episode she will respond to a small story from readers, to lead people to reflect on the marital predicament in personal, relationship and social multi-level to explore the possibility of creative marriage.