常常可以听到父母这样对孩子说:“你再不听话,明天就去幼儿园告诉你的老师。”孩子为什么会固执地不听父母的话呢?老师又怎么能使孩子轻易地服从呢? 从儿童心理发展的进程来看,幼儿期特别是三到六岁的孩子正处于通常所说的第一反抗期。这年龄段的孩子为了引起成人的注意,让成人意识到他们的存在,重视他们的能力,往往会出现反抗执拗、捣乱和顶嘴的现象。虽说这些现象是儿童成长过程中不可避免的,但决不能因此而对此不问不闻、放任自流,而是应该通过教育引导,使他们愉快地度过这一阶段。 Often parents can be heard saying to their children: “You’re not obedient and go to kindergarten tomorrow to tell your teacher.” Why children stubbornly ignore their parents? How can teachers make children easily obey? From the children’s psychology According to the process of development, children in early childhood, especially three to six years old, are in the so-called first resistance period. Children of this age group tend to show resistance to stubbornness, troublemaking and backsliding in order to attract the attention of adults and to make adults aware of their existence and attach importance to their abilities. Although these phenomena are inevitable in the process of children’s growth, they should never be ignored or left untouched by themselves. Instead, they should be guided by education so that they can pass through this stage with pleasure.