花桥寺小学属于竹溪县中峰的一所农村学校,距离县城不到三里,因为地处县城郊区,所以生源比较复杂。有的孩子是留守儿童,多数孩子父母外出打工,时常不在家,加上家长文化水平较低,从而削弱了家庭教育的力量。还有些孩子因为父母繁忙,由爷爷奶奶管教,他们却更加宠爱,使得学生的心理放纵,让学校教育工作难上加难。正因为家长“望子成龙”、“望女成凤”心切,对子女有求必应,以至于溺爱和放纵,让孩子养成了许多不好的生活习惯,从而影响到他们在学 Huaqiao Temple Elementary School belongs to a rural school in Zhongfeng, Zhuxi County, less than three miles from the county seat, because it is located in the outskirts of the county seat, so the students are more complicated. Some children are left-behind children. Most of the children go out to work outside their home often with parents having a low educational level, thus undermining the power of family education. There are also some children who, because of their busy parents, are disciplined by grandparents. However, they are even more darling, which makes students’ psychological indulgences harder to make school education work harder. It is precisely because of parents, “Succeed in Succeed,” “Desire into a woman,” "eager, responsive to their children, so spoiled and indulgent, so that children develop a lot of bad habits, thus affecting their learning