我想,他正是一个正在成长中的男孩所需要的那类男人。我父亲扔下我们母子俩的时候我只有3岁。他出其不意地离开了我们,像一缕轻烟一样消失了,我甚至不知道就此离开我的生活的那个人是谁。我对父亲几乎没有什么印象。妈妈不愿意谈论他,她几乎不愿意提到他的名字。他离开以后,再也没有回来过,好像从人间蒸发了一样。 I think he is exactly the kind of man that a growing boy needs. I was only 3 years old when my father dropped both of us. He had left us by surprise and disappeared like a sliver of smoke, and I did not even know who the person left my life was. I have almost no impression of my father. She was reluctant to talk about him, and she was hardly reluctant to mention his name. After he left, he never returned, as if evaporated from the world.